Some lucky people seem to have a magic touch when it comes to getting people, to buy into their plans, goals, and desires but, in reality reaching people isn’t magic. It’s an art and a science and it’s easier than you think.
Isn’t it an art…?
“Adequate management is the art of making problems so interesting and their solutions so constructive that everyone wants to get to work and deal with them” …PAUL HAWKEN.
Right now there’s someone in your life you need to reach. But you can’t and it’s driving you crazy. Maybe a client your boss or maybe it’s someone at home a partner, a parent, a defiant teen, an angry “ex”
How it’s happens ;
You’ve tried everything – logic, persuation, forcefulness, anger and you’re thinking “what now”???
HERE COMES TO FIX IT ;
Here’s what I want you to do. Think of this as a captives situation. Why? because you can’t get free. You’re trapped by another person’s resistance, fear, hostility, apathy, stubbornness, self-centered ness or neediness and by own inability to take effective action
And that’s where I come in, and the secret, when you become consciously, aware of these stages and can mentally identified each one as it happens,
Clearly im not saying you can solve a crisis in two minutes you can’t. What im saying is that you can think your way through to the possible solution that quickly when you do that, you take yourself out of panic mode and into solution mode. As a result, you’ll be able to say all the right things and avoid saying
CALM DOWN, THINK…
Rabat 